And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind,
that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. Romans 12:2
A Canadian blogger, a life-long Seventh Day Adventist, told of two older people who were brought up in the church, one who was still faithful to the denomination, one who left. The latter said, We are happy with our decision to leave; we find great blessing in attending the Anglican Church. The other responded, You are happy belonging to the Anglican Church because it doesn't demand anything of you-- it's a comfortable pew.
The phrase "a comfortable pew" suggests that some people want the benefits of belonging to a church body, but do not want to be inconvenienced with any requirements, any restrictions that might become onerous in any way.
I grew up in a church that imposed rules for living on its membership. Some of those regulations perhaps more restrictive than even Jesus himself would have asked. (Or perhaps not: He asks our all.) But the point is that in following the guidelines we were reminded that sailing too close to the world entailed the danger of capsizing in the sea of sin and degradation, resulting ultimately in the loss of our souls.
I believe that in its attempt to reach out to the lost the church today in its effort to be "seeker friendly" is in danger of capsizing herself, for we are taught in scripture that we are to come out of the world and be separate from it (2 Corinthians 6:17); to be not conformed to the world but to be transformed (Romans 12:2)
To seek salvation is a good thing. Jesus himself said, "Seek ye first the kingdom of heaven, and all these things shall be added unto you." (Matthew 6:33) This suggests that it is not a comfortable pew we should seek, but rather the Kingdom of heaven and all that that entails. A comfortable pew does not give spiritual rest, Jesus does. "Come unto me all ye that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) It's in The Book.
Besides, Jesus said all who labor, not all who sit in a comfortable pew.



I responded:
The application here is simply follow God's lead. Of course, if you wish to share your wealth with your elder brother, that is good, too
In the wee hours I became aware of the fact that my answer needs expansion. so this:
It seems to me that the Old Testament provides example after example of the necessity to pursue the will of God. Those who follow God's leading seem to bask in His approbation. Those who fail to do so apparently fall into disfavor such that the end results are not pretty.
Beginning in the Garden of Eden we see the forebears, given one simple prohibition, unable or unwilling to abide by the strictures, plunge the entire human race into chaos.
We see Noah accomplish a daunting, even seemingly impossible task. He is rewarded with life.
Moses rose to worldly prominence, sank to level of murderer and exiled himself from the land, yet at the age of eighty when God called him, he responded.
Saul defies the rules of the Lord and loses everything, including his life.
David is highly favored of the Lord, yet the desire of his life is not granted because of the sin he allowed to creep in..
And so on.
The point that I hope to make is two-fold. To read the Old Testament is to read the Bible as Jesus knew it, for the OT was the Bible from which he worked and which he often quoted in his ministry. To read the Bible is not only instructive in the necessity of seeking God's purpose for our lives, it is also laden with fascinating accounts of man's struggles, his relationships with his fellow-man, and his interaction with God.