What other choice do I have? Capitalized, this little four-letter word is my surname. It has been said that for most people the sound of their own name is the most pleasing sound in the world. So it is imperative that I find this to be a word pleasing to my ear!
lacy (adj.) describes an object which is made of, or is trimmed with, or resembles lace.
I carry the name proudly, for it was my father's name, and his father's before him. But as an adjective it totally would not apply to me. Who was it who said, just the other day, "You are a bit of a prickly old man, you know that?"The frost on the window imposed a lacy design on the world viewed through it.
There exists a mess of four-letter "m" words. Menu could be a favorite because I always want to know what's available. Meek is good. Jesus said, "Blessed are the meek." I find that a difficult posture to attain. However, I choose:
To mend is to set right, to repair, to improve. My parents were both very talented and accomplished menders of things. Father could fix almost anything mechanical and Mother was a wizard at keeping the clothing presentable long after most people would have discarded them. "Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without" was not just a mantra in our household. They were words lived by. One of Mother's mending maxims was, "It is no shame to wear patches; but it is a shame to be dirty."
I like "mend" particularly in the instance of improving health, as in "He has been deathly ill, but he is on the mend now."
I also favor the use of the term in cases of healing relationships. "The man and his son were alienated for years, but they seem to have found a way to mend their relationship." Such mending almost always requires someone to say, "I was wrong." In many cases of broken fellowship, both parties are at fault to some degree.
Can a broken heart be mended? There is a question that should be pondered long and hard before one behaves toward his beloved in such a way as to break her heart. imho